xen-netfront: fix two hotplug related issues

This patch fixes two issues seen on hot-unplug. The first one is a panic
caused by calling ether_ifdetach after freeing the internal netfront queue
structures. ether_ifdetach will call xn_qflush, and this needs to be done
before freeing the queues. This prevents the following panic:

Fatal trap 9: general protection fault while in kernel mode
cpuid = 2; apic id = 04
instruction pointer = 0x20:0xffffffff80b1687f
stack pointer = 0x28:0xfffffe009239e770
frame pointer = 0x28:0xfffffe009239e780
code segment = base 0x0, limit 0xfffff, type 0x1b

			= DPL 0, pres 1, long 1, def32 0, gran 1

processor eflags = interrupt enabled, resume, IOPL = 0
current process = 0 (thread taskq)
[ thread pid 0 tid 100015 ]
Stopped at strlen+0x1f: movq (%rcx),%rax
db> bt
Tracing pid 0 tid 100015 td 0xfffff800038a6000
strlen() at strlen+0x1f/frame 0xfffffe009239e780
kvprintf() at kvprintf+0xfa0/frame 0xfffffe009239e890
vsnprintf() at vsnprintf+0x31/frame 0xfffffe009239e8b0
kassert_panic() at kassert_panic+0x5a/frame 0xfffffe009239e920
mtx_lock_flags() at mtx_lock_flags+0x164/frame 0xfffffe009239e970
xn_qflush() at xn_qflush+0x59/frame 0xfffffe009239e9b0
if_detach() at if_detach+0x17e/frame 0xfffffe009239ea10
netif_free() at netif_free+0x97/frame 0xfffffe009239ea30
netfront_detach() at netfront_detach+0x11/frame 0xfffffe009239ea40
[...]

Another panic can be triggered by hot-plugging a NIC:

Fatal trap 18: integer divide fault while in kernel mode
cpuid = 0; apic id = 00
instruction pointer = 0x20:0xffffffff80902203
stack pointer = 0x28:0xfffffe00508d3660
frame pointer = 0x28:0xfffffe00508d36a0
code segment = base 0x0, limit 0xfffff, type 0x1b

			= DPL 0, pres 1, long 1, def32 0, gran 1

processor eflags = interrupt enabled, resume, IOPL = 0
current process = 2960 (ifconfig)
[ thread pid 2960 tid 100088 ]
Stopped at xn_txq_mq_start+0x33: divl %esi,%eax
db> bt
Tracing pid 2960 tid 100088 td 0xfffff8000850aa00
xn_txq_mq_start() at xn_txq_mq_start+0x33/frame 0xfffffe00508d36a0
ether_output() at ether_output+0x570/frame 0xfffffe00508d3720
arprequest() at arprequest+0x433/frame 0xfffffe00508d3820
arp_ifinit() at arp_ifinit+0x49/frame 0xfffffe00508d3850
xn_ioctl() at xn_ioctl+0x1a2/frame 0xfffffe00508d3890
in_control() at in_control+0x882/frame 0xfffffe00508d3910
ifioctl() at ifioctl+0xda1/frame 0xfffffe00508d39a0
kern_ioctl() at kern_ioctl+0x246/frame 0xfffffe00508d3a00
sys_ioctl() at sys_ioctl+0x171/frame 0xfffffe00508d3ae0
amd64_syscall() at amd64_syscall+0x2db/frame 0xfffffe00508d3bf0
Xfast_syscall() at Xfast_syscall+0xfb/frame 0xfffffe00508d3bf0

• syscall (54, FreeBSD ELF64, sys_ioctl), rip = 0x8011e185a, rsp =

0x7fffffffe478, rbp = 0x7fffffffe4c0 ---

This is caused by marking the driver as active before it's fully
initialized, and thus calling xn_txq_mq_start with num_queues set to 0.

Reviewed by: Wei Liu <wei.liu2@citrix.com>
Sponsored by: Citrix Systems R&D
Differential revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D6646