cxgbe/t4_tom: Exempt RDMA connections from a TCP sanity test for now, to
avoid panicking debug kernels.

t4_tom does not keep track of a connection once it switches to ULP mode
iWARP. If the connection falls out of ULP mode the driver/hardware seq#
etc. are out of sync. A better fix would be to figure out what the
current seq# are, update the driver's state, and perform all sanity
checks as usual.