[net8021] Pull out the ibss check code into a public function.

The ath(4) driver now sees beacons and management frames for different
BSSIDs in IBSS mode, which is a problem when you're in a very busy
IBSS environment.

So, expose this function so drivers can use it to check if the current
RX node is actually for a BSS we need to pay attention to or not.

PR: kern/208644
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