Switch vnet_state to directly use SI_SUB_* values. That way we
also have possible rugh guess where in the bringup or teardown
we are.

Add a show vnet command to ddb which allows us to inspect a vnet which
is no longer on the all-vnet-list.
Rename show vnets to show all vnets as it slways should have been.

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