Add vrefl(), a locked variant of vref(9).

This API has no in-tree consumers at the moment but is useful to at least
one out-of-tree consumer, and naturally complements existing vnode refcount
functions (vholdl(9), vdropl(9)).

Obtained from: kib (sys/ portion)
Sponsored by: EMC / Isilon Storage Division
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D4947
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D4953