Replace the out-of-place includes/files/config handling in bsd.subdir.mk with
more typical ALL_SUBDIR_TARGETS entries and target hooks in bsd.incs.mk,
bsd.files.mk and bsd.confs.mk.

This allows the targets to be NOPs if unneeded and still work with the
shortcut 'make includes' to build and then install in a parallel-safe manner.

Sort and re-indent the ALL_SUBDIR_TARGETS with the new entries.

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