The umtx_lock mutex is used by top-half of the kernel, but is
currently a spin lock. Apparently, the only reason for this is that
umtx_thread_exit() is called under the process spinlock, which put the
requirement on the umtx_lock. Note that the witness static order list
is wrong for the umtx_lock, umtx_lock is explicitely before any thread
lock, so it is also before sleepq locks.

Change umtx_lock to be the sleepable mutex. For the reason above, the
calls to umtx_thread_exit() are moved from thread_exit() earlier in
each caller, when the process spin lock is not yet taken.

Discussed with: jhb
Tested by: pho (previous version)
Sponsored by: The FreeBSD Foundation
MFC after: 3 weeks