smbfs_lookup() in the DOTDOT case operates on dvp->n_parent without
proper locking. This doesn't prevent in any case reclaim of the vnode.
Avoid this not going over-the-wire in this case and relying on subsequent
smbfs_getattr() call to restore consistency.
While I'm here, change a couple of SMBVDEBUG() in MPASS().
sbmfs_smb_lookup() doesn't and shouldn't know about '.' and '..'

Reported by: pho's stress2 suite