Increase usefulness of "show malloc" by moving from displaying the basic
counters of allocs/frees/use for each malloc type to calculating InUse,
MemUse, and Requests as displayed by the userspace vmstat -m. This is
more useful when debugging malloc(9)-related memory leaks, where the
count of allocs/frees may not usefully reflect that current memory
allocation (i.e., when highly variable size allocations occur with the
same malloc type, such as with contigmalloc).

MFC after: 3 days
Limitations observed by: scottl