lang/erlang, lang/erlang-runtime*: Indicate which port supports OpenSSL 1.1

With some patching [1], Erlang 19.x supports OpenSSL 1.1.x (lang/erlang,
lang/erlang-runtime19).

However, previous versions are now marked as broken with OpenSSL 1.1.x.

PR: 225898
Submitted by: brnrd [1]
Obtained from: Upstream