Add missing dependency on p5-IP-Country when the nondefault option
RELAY_COUNTRY is enabled [0]

While here, carbage collect the UPDATE_AND_COMPILE option from
OPTIONS_DEFUALT, this was most likely missed in r425590

Don't bump portrevision, since this dependency is nut pulled in by default.

PR: 222649 [0]
Reported by: Max Kostikov <max@kostikov.co> [0]