security/openssl-devel: Configure, Build fixes

• Do not pass asm to configure (upstream default ON), fixes configure
• Disable EC optimizations on i386, fixes build
• Split options activation into upstream-default-enabled and -disabled
• Rework EC option handling
• Align order of Makefile with security/openssl
• Use improved patching from security/openssl
• Improve options descriptions
• Remove old PRECIOUSMAKEVARS
• Add pkg-message