IGNORE emulators/i386-wine(-devel)? on ARCH=i386, fix lib bundling.

Due to the hackery things these ports do to properly work under amd64, it
results in issues for pkg. This port - although it needs to build under
i386 - is not intended to be consumed under i386. The normal wine(-devel)?
ports should be consumed on an i386 system and these ports should be
consumed on an amd64 system. [1]

Reorder the library detection to pick up soft dependencies first, then the
linked to libraries. Prior to this change any libraries required by a soft
dependency wasn't bundled, for example libgnutls.so.28 did not have its
dependencies bundled. [2][3]

Requested by: bdrewery [1]
Reported by: Joseph Mingrone <jrm@ftfl.ca> [2]

		Beeblebrox <zaphod@berentweb.com> [3]