This changes tracks down the EEOR->NonEEOR mode failure
to wakeup on close of the sender. It basically moves
the return (when the asoc has a reader/writer) further
down and gets the wakeup and assoc appending (of the
PD-API event) moved up before the return. It also
moves the flag set right before the return so we can
assure only once adding the PD-API events.

Approved by: gnn