irdma(4): Upgrade to 1.2.36-k

Update Intel irdma driver to version 1.2.36-k.

Notable changes:

• Start using ib_sge directly instead of irdma_sge
• Turn off flush completion generator for libirdma
• Minor formatting changes

Signed-off-by: Bartosz Sobczak <bartosz.sobczak@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Eric Joyner <erj@FreeBSD.org>

Reviewed by: erj@
Approved by: re (cperciva@)
Sponsored by: Intel Corporation
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D43567

(cherry picked from commit 5b5f7d0e77a9eee73eb5d596f43aef4e1a3674d8)
(cherry picked from commit a4510dafa8045bfa521303db7f23123a47d8749f)