VFS_QUOTACTL(9): allow implementation to indicate busy state changes

Instead of requiring all implementations of vfs_quotactl to unbusy
the mount for Q_QUOTAON and Q_QUOTAOFF, add an "mp_busy" in/out param
to VFS_QUOTACTL(9). The implementation may then indicate to the caller
whether it needed to unbusy the mount.

Also, add stbool.h to libprocstat modules which #define _KERNEL
before including sys/mount.h. Otherwise they'll pull in sys/types.h
before defining _KERNEL and therefore won't have the bool definition
they need for mp_busy.

Reviewed By: kib, markj
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D30556