generic_stop_cpus: prevent parallel execution

This is based on the same approach as used in panic().
In theory parallel execution of generic_stop_cpus() could lead to two CPUs
stopping each other and everyone else, and thus a total system halt.
Also, in theory, we should have some smarter locking here, because two
(or more CPUs) could be stopping unrelated sets of CPUs.
But in practice, it seems, this function is only used to stop
"all other" CPUs.

Additionally, I took this opportunity to make amd64-specific suspend_cpus()
function use generic_stop_cpus() instead of rolling out essentially
duplicate code.

This code is based on code by Sandvine Incorporated.

Suggested by: mdf
Reviewed by: jhb, jkim (earlier version)
MFC after: 2 weeks