netgraph/ng_bridge: Avoid cache thrashing

Hint the compiler, that this update is needed at most once per second.
Only in this case the memory line needs to be written. This will
reduce the amount of cache trashing during forward of most frames.

Suggested by: zec
Approved by: zec
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D28601

(cherry picked from commit 4dfe70fdbda05453e824bc9edfc0d09eab7b2929)