iflib: Free resources in a consistent order during detach

Memory and PCI resources are freed with no particular order. This could
cause use-after-frees when detaching following a failed attach. For
instance, iflib_tx_structures_free() frees ctx->ifc_txqs[] but
iflib_tqg_detach() attempts to access this array. Similarly, adapter
queues gets freed by IFDI_QUEUES_FREE() but IFDI_DETACH() attempts to
access adapter queues to free PCI resources.

MFC after: 2 weeks
Sponsored by: NetApp, Inc.
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D27634