Remove atomics from zh_refcount

It is protected by z_hold_locks, so we do not need more serialization,
simple integer math should be fine.

Reviewed-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Reviewed-by: Ryan Moeller <ryan@iXsystems.com>
Reviewed-by: Richard Yao <richard.yao@alumni.stonybrook.edu>
Signed-off-by: Alexander Motin <mav@FreeBSD.org>
Closes #14196