sysutils/openzfs, sysutils/openzfs-kmod: update to ZFS 2.2.2

Among other things, this fixes an important data corruption bug. It
also fixes the build on FreeBSD 14.

https://github.com/openzfs/zfs/releases/tag/zfs-2.2.2

PR: 275239
MFH: 2023Q4
Approved by: mikael (ports)
Sponsored-by: Axcient

(cherry picked from commit 117f55784d981833d6b51038afc215239382e651)