graphics/openexr*: update to v3.3.3

This contains out-of-bounds memory access fixes, hence:

MFH: 2025Q1
ChangeLog: https://github.com/AcademySoftwareFoundation/openexr/releases/tag/v3.3.3
(cherry picked from commit 81a38fb8f2b72cd768acd72a58409ad4abef229a)