devel/py-joblib: Unbreak build

Missing setuptools and wheel dependencies since 1.5.1 update
Also alphabetize USE_PYTHON

PR: 287286
Reported by: delphij
Reviewed by: otis, vvd, einar@isnic.is
Tested by: jwb
Approved by: blanket (build fix, maintainer timeout)
Fixes: 0d65e1ba4c18 devel/py-joblib: update to v1.5.1