Instead of moving vn_start_write and friends to vfsops, I decided to add a
vfsconf flag instead.
This speeds up some operations which otherwise contend a lot on mp lock.
This business with mp's becoming NULL at any time is quite fishy (I do realize
they are not freed), I'll poke around holding them while there are any vnodes.
I'll poke around speeding up vn_start_write & friends later.