Resolve some problems that where exposed by the meson 0.48.0 exp-run.

• Drop NO_ARCH, libexec/brisk-menu is a native ELF executable.
• List USE_MATE=menus because brisk-menu depends on it directly.

Use either /usr/bin/ld.lld or the ld from the binutils port. To work around a
issue with /usr/bin/ld.bdf reporting errors for symbols that exist in shared
libraries specified on the command line. It is unknown why this is happening.

PR: 231219
Submitted by: Ting-Wei Lan <lantw44@gmail.com>