mail/mutt-lite: Deprecate and expire mail/mutt-lite

To simplify mail/mutt port deprecate and expire mail/mutt-lite.
An option-less config with ncurese should be the same as mail/mutt-lite.

Give ~2 months for users to move to mail/mutt

PR: 229938
Submitted by: dereks@lifeofadishwasher.com (maintainer)
Sponsored by: Miles AS