misc/py-tqdm: Update to 4.13.0

While here, adjust license

Changes: https://github.com/tqdm/tqdm/releases/tag/v4.13.0

PR: 219735
Submitted by: Neel Chauhan <neel@neelc.org> (maintainer)
Approved by: garga (mentor)
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D11044