deskutils/gnome-contacts: restore CHEESE option

Since version 3.18, the --without-cheese configuration argument didn't
work out of the box. However, touching a couple of files causes c source
files to be regenerated enabling the option to be honored.

This commit restores the options as they were before r421349 but now
disabling the default CHEESE option works.

PR: 207426
Approved by: follow-on commit (r421349)