Introduce ZFS module parameter l2arc_mfuonly

In certain workloads it may be beneficial to reduce wear of L2ARC
devices by not caching MRU metadata and data into L2ARC. This commit
introduces a new tunable l2arc_mfuonly for this purpose.

Reviewed-by: Matthew Ahrens <mahrens@delphix.com>
Reviewed-by: Richard Elling <Richard.Elling@RichardElling.com>
Reviewed-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Signed-off-by: George Amanakis <gamanakis@gmail.com>
Closes #10710