Add CodeQL mismatched dsl_dataset_hold/_rele pairs check

This check is currently limited to checking mismatches that occur in the
same stack frame. It does not detect across stack frames.

Reviewed-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Reviewed-by: Alexander Motin <mav@FreeBSD.org>
Signed-off-by: Richard Yao <richard@ryao.dev>
Closes #17352