Linux 6.8 compat: update for new bdev access functions

blkdev_get_by_path() and blkdev_put() have been replaced by
bdev_open_by_path() and bdev_release(), which return a "handle" object
with the bdev object itself inside.

This adds detection for the new functions, and macros to handle the old
and new forms consistently.

Reviewed-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Signed-off-by: Rob Norris <robn@despairlabs.com>
Sponsored-by: https://despairlabs.com/sponsor/
Closes #15805