Fix inability to destroy snapshot used over NFS

The cache of struct svc_export and struct svc_expkey by nfsd and
rpc.mountd for the snapshot holds references to the mount point.
We need to flush them out before unmounting, otherwise umount
would fail with EBUSY.

Reviewed-by: Don Brady <don.brady@delphix.com>
Reviewed-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Signed-off-by: Youzhong Yang <yyang@mathworks.com>
Closes #6000
Closes #10783