config: remove HAVE_VFS_FILE_OPERATIONS_EXTEND

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Reviewed-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Reviewed-by: Tony Hutter <hutter2@llnl.gov>
Reviewed-by: Tino Reichardt <milky-zfs@mcmilk.de>
Signed-off-by: Rob Norris <robn@despairlabs.com>
Closes #16479