net-p2p/ncdc: Update to 1.24.1

• Rework and adjust list of library dependencies
• Remove gmake dependency
• Use sqlite helper
• Remove CONFIGURE_ENV entries (unnecessary except for ncurses on FreeBSD 13)

Previous iteration of patch submitted by Älven <alster@vinterdalen.se>

PR: 282657
Approved by: portmgr (maintainer timeout, 1+ month)