mail/dbmail: unbreak on FreeBSD15+, take maintainership (+)
On FreeBSD 15+ with recent ZFS in a box we always have libzdb.so and zdb.h installed
which conflicts with databases/zdb and breaks the build of dbmail
Set workaround to use <zdb/zdb.h> instead of plain <zdb.h>
PR: 291389
MFH: 2025Q4
Approved by: bofh (former maintainer)