To enable RSS hashing in the NIC, the PCSD bit must be set.
By default, this is never set when RXCSUM is disabled - which
causes problems higher up in the stack.
While here simplify the RXCSUM flag assignments and remove
the older PCSD bit and single/multi queue handling.
Submitted by: Stephan de Wit
See also: https://lists.freebsd.org/pipermail/freebsd-current/2020-May/076148.html