diff: Tweak range of -C and -U arguments

POSIX uses the terms “positive decimal integer” for -C and “non-negative
decimal integer” for -U, which translates into lower bounds of 1 for -C
and 0 for -U.

POSIX does not specify a minimum upper bound for either mode, but as of
5fc739eb5949 both our backends support context sizes up to and including
INT_MAX, so use that.

Having had the opportunity to consult the Unix System Test Suite, the
diff test cases found therein happen to precisely match these bounds.

While here, switch to using strtonum() to parse numerical arguments, and
try to be more consistent in how we report usage errors.

MFC after: 1 week
Sponsored by: Klara, Inc.
Reviewed by: kevans
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D55261

(cherry picked from commit 790f1d1cc5fa892ba59fd7f239b22064c8ab14c7)