net80211: add support for drivers to disable sending NULL data frames

net80211 has various places where null data / null qos data frames
are sent. However plenty of NICs shouldn't be sending them from
net80211 and it may even upset their 802.11n window / sequence number
tracking.

So add support here.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D52297
Reviewed by: bz

(cherry picked from commit 9bfb1405332c6c847dd29e4db4dd3afb56662021)