nda: Assume all cases in ndaasync can sleep

The error recovery is nicer if we can wait for the tiny memory we need
to send the messages when the physpath changes. Since we've moved the
async handler into a sleepable context, we can wait for the allocation
to complete since async events are rare enough and it's not an
indefinite wait.

Also add a comment about the scope of AC_ADVINFO_CHANGED for nvme
drives. We could use it for broadcasting INDENTIFY changes in nvme
drives. However, the underlying mechanisms in NVMe don't really allow
for that (they are more fine-grained). So for namespace changes, for
example, we'll send AC_GETDEV_CHANGED instead of a AC_ADVINFO_CHANGED.

Sponsored by: Netflix
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D55523