mail/dma: update to 0.13.20210614

• Upstream does not make releases very often while significant bugfixes are committed now and than. Last release was Feb 2020.
• Upgrade the port to the same version as is included in DragonflyBSD: https://lists.dragonflybsd.org/pipermail/commits/2021-May/820180.html
• This versioning scheme is flexible enough to follow 0.14 in the future might that release ever happen.
• Remove now obsoleted patch-crypto.c

PR: 256597
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