LinuxKPI: allow a driver to override the default pci probe result

Add bsd_probe_return which a driver can set in their 'struct pci_driver'
definition to set a driver-sepcific LinuxKPI pci return value.
This is helpful in case of multiple drivers with overlapping IDs,
such as iwlwifi(4) and iwm(4).

Contrary to an earlier version we now assume 0 is not BUS_PROBE_SPECIFIC
(which no driver should really return these days) but the bss initialized
value (bsd_probe_return unset) and we will return BUS_PROBE_DEFAULT.

Suggested by: jhb
Reviewed by: jhb
Reviewed by: hselasky, imp (earlier versions)
Sponsored by: The FreeBSD Foundation
MFC after: 3 days
X-MFC: new struct members need to go to the end for stable/13
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D33915