zfs: merge openzfs/zfs@aee26af27 (zfs-2.1-release) into stable/13
Notable upstream pull request merges:
#12172 Use wmsum for arc, abd, dbuf and zfetch statistics #12227 Revert Consolidate arc_buf allocation checks #12273 zfs_metaslab_mem_limit should be 25 instead of 75 #12266 Fix flag copying in resume case #12276 Update cache file when setting compatibility property
Obtained from: OpenZFS
OpenZFS commit: aee26af277c91abeb0e1cfe27cc48cc328fdb881