OpenSSL: Cleanup record length checks for KTLS

In some corner cases the check for packets
which exceed the allowed record length was missing
when KTLS is initially enabled, when some
unprocessed packets are still pending.

Approved by: jkim
Obtained from: OpenSSL commit 8fff986d52606e1a33f9404504535e2e2aee3e8b
MFC after: 1 week
Sponsored by: Netflix
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D34972

(cherry picked from commit f6e5fcdc848fc24fe71f01ba583f13e762c0ab54)