Index: sys/netinet/igmp.c
===================================================================
--- sys/netinet/igmp.c
+++ sys/netinet/igmp.c
@@ -856,6 +856,7 @@
 			    "process v2 query 0x%08x on ifp %p(%s)",
 			    ntohl(igmp->igmp_group.s_addr), ifp, ifp->if_xname);
 			igmp_v2_update_group(inm, timer);
+			inm_release_deferred(inm);
 		}
 	}
 
@@ -1081,6 +1082,8 @@
 
 out_locked:
 	IGMP_UNLOCK();
+	if (inm)
+		inm_release_deferred(inm);
 	IN_MULTI_LIST_UNLOCK();
 
 	return (0);
@@ -1296,6 +1299,9 @@
 	}
 
 out_locked:
+	if (inm)
+		inm_release_deferred(inm);
+
 	IN_MULTI_LIST_UNLOCK();
 
 	return (0);
@@ -1406,8 +1412,9 @@
 			break;
 		}
 	}
-
 out_locked:
+	if (inm)
+		inm_release_deferred(inm);
 	IN_MULTI_LIST_UNLOCK();
 
 	return (0);
Index: sys/netinet/in_mcast.c
===================================================================
--- sys/netinet/in_mcast.c
+++ sys/netinet/in_mcast.c
@@ -357,6 +357,8 @@
 			break;
 		inm = NULL;
 	}
+	if (inm)
+		inm_acquire_locked(inm);
 	return (inm);
 }
 
@@ -564,9 +566,8 @@
 		 * If we already joined this group, just bump the
 		 * refcount and return it.
 		 */
-		KASSERT(inm->inm_refcount >= 1,
+		KASSERT(inm->inm_refcount > 1,
 		    ("%s: bad refcount %d", __func__, inm->inm_refcount));
-		inm_acquire_locked(inm);
 		*pinm = inm;
 	}
 	IN_MULTI_LIST_UNLOCK();
@@ -638,7 +639,8 @@
 	inm->inm_ifp = ifp;
 	inm->inm_igi = ii->ii_igmp;
 	inm->inm_ifma = ifma;
-	inm->inm_refcount = 1;
+	/* One reference for the caller and one for the ifp */
+	inm->inm_refcount = 2;
 	inm->inm_state = IGMP_NOT_MEMBER;
 	mbufq_init(&inm->inm_scq, IGMP_MAX_STATE_CHANGES);
 	inm->inm_st[0].iss_fmode = MCAST_UNDEFINED;
@@ -1314,6 +1316,7 @@
 	if (error) {
 
 		CTR2(KTR_IGMPV3, "%s: dropping ref on %p", __func__, inm);
+		/* drop the callers reference */
 		inm_release_deferred(inm);
 	} else {
 		*pinm = inm;
@@ -2285,7 +2288,6 @@
                         IN_MULTI_LIST_UNLOCK();
 			goto out_imo_free;
 		}
-		inm_acquire(inm);
 		imo->imo_membership[idx] = inm;
 	} else {
 		CTR1(KTR_IGMPV3, "%s: merge inm state", __func__);